MOHAMMAD ALI BAIG, PADMA SHRI RECEPIENT AND FILMMAKER

As I reflect on what defines a positive male role model, I think of my father, a creative genius who was ahead of his time. He embodied two qualities that I strive to emulate: the blend of art and commerce and balancing professional and family life. My father’s ability to create critically acclaimed and commercially successful plays taught me the importance of finding that balance. He also showed me that being a legendary figure doesn’t mean compromising on family time. He made time for birthdays, household staff and quality time with loved ones.
For me, a positive male role model is someone who prioritises integrity, value systems, and human relationships without agendas. In today’s world, it’s easy to get bogged down in the rat race and forget these essential aspects.
To the next generation of men, I want to convey that integrity and value systems are crucial in any field. Don’t compromise on work ethics or personal ethics for success. Human relationships should be genuine, not just networking opportunities.
Personally, I’ve learned that shedding bitterness is key to positivity. My mother taught me how to maintain dignity and live a dignified life, regardless of circumstances. She instilled in me the importance of respecting femininity, which enhances masculinity.
I believe true masculinity comes from respecting women and recognising that our existence begins in a mother’s womb. We should shed societal expectations that men must be strong and unemotional. Women are often stronger and more emotional, and men should learn from that.
To prioritise self-care, mental health and emotional well-being, I think men should recognise that societal norms shouldn’t define their vulnerability. We don’t have to suppress emotions to be strong. Instead, we should focus on being strong in our own circumstances, without comparing ourselves to others.