Actor-singer Shruti Haasan, known for her candidness and introspection, recently shared insights into how her parents’ divorce shaped her understanding of independence and resilience. In an interview, Shruti reflected on growing up in a creative and privileged household with her parents, legendary actors Kamal Haasan and Sarika and how their eventual separation in 2002, followed by their divorce in 2004, became a turning point in her life. Opening up about the emotional and practical challenges she faced, Shruti revealed how these experiences instilled in her the importance of self-reliance and independence, especially as a woman.
Born into a family that celebrated art and creativity, Shruti acknowledged the privileges she grew up with. “I was born in a very beautiful family—artistic, intelligent parents and by the grace of God, lots of comforts,” she shared. However, life took a different turn when her parents decided to separate in 2002, eventually divorcing in 2004. For Shruti, this pivotal moment was an eye-opener.
“When my parents split up, everything changed,” she reflected. “That’s when I realised the value of financial independence and personality-driven independence. Especially being a daughter and seeing that my mum walked out of a marriage, it taught me an important lesson on why it is crucial for a woman to stand on her own feet.”
The divorce wasn’t without its emotional toll and Shruti didn’t shy away from discussing the pain it caused. “It hurts. Not just the children but parents feel the pain, too,” she explained. “This is a normal part of many homes today. It’s not just about parents getting divorced or separated and feeling the pain—there are homes where, for the sake of society, parents stay together and sometimes there is even more pain in those homes because it is hidden.”
Shruti’s reflections serve as a powerful reminder of the importance of emotional and financial independence, as well as the resilience required to navigate challenging family dynamics. Through her honesty, she continues to inspire many by shedding light on the complexities of relationships and the lessons they bring.
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